Good morning! My name is Lauren and I'm a grateful, recovering, alcoholic/addict. God made me just the way I am, and no one else like me. He even made my twin brothers, who can be so alike...so different. No two people are the same. So why try to be like someone else. Be you! Quit comparing yourself to someone else. I know it's hard, we all wish for something different. We want curly hair if ours is straight. We want to be taller if we are short, but we are just the way we are supposed to be. I used to be really skinny and I wished I were bigger, well look at me now, I'm bigger. Now I wish I I were skinnier. I have learned to just be happy with who I am. Since I got sober I have struggled with my weight, I have tried diets, and working out, now I;m in constant pain so I can't work out. Maybe this is God saying, quit trying to be who you aren't. Just be happy with who you are today!!! Quit trying to be who you were 15 years ago, or whatever, be who you are today, and be happy with it. If you are overweight and want to lose some weight, that's fine, but still be happy with yourself today. If you are just getting sober and want to be sober for 5 years, just be happy with your sobriety today. That's all I have for today. Have a great day! God Bless!
Good afternoon! My name is Lauren and I'm a grateful, recovering alcoholic/addict. I have to remind myself of this sometimes, but it is definitely true. My worst day clean and sober is always better than my best day drunk or high. I may have some really bad days, but I have to remind myself that going back out there is not going to make my problems so away. They will still be there when I'm sober. I just learned to deal with them, and take care of my problems for them go to away. It's not magic. I have to work at it, but it is sooo worth it! Anything worth having is worth working for. So if you are having a bad today, just remember it could be worse, and to keep your head up and face your problems head on. Sometimes they take time to figure out and deal with but it's better than them building up and growing into more issues. That's all I have for today. God bless! Have a great day!
Just Good morning! My name is Lauren, and I'm a grateful, recovering alcoholic/addict. You are the only person who can make any change in your life. You have to want to do it. Your desire to change must be greater than your desire to stay the same! Otherwise there will be no change. I had to reach my bottom and have nothing left for me to want to do anything about it. But I knew there was something that could save me. There was someone who had been with me walking with me this whole time, and I had to surrender to Him. He had pretty much kept me alive this whole time, kept me safe, kept my children safe. I had to completely surrender and give my life to Him and give each day to Him. I can't do this alone. I never have, but I definitely can't now. Today I need God more than ever. I have also started a new journey. I started my own business. I started to sell It Works! I love these products and believe in them. And if I want to change my life only I can. So I am going to work hard and make it work! If you want to check out my site please go to laurenyoder.myitworks.com and let me know if you have any questions! I am also looking for product models to get my wholesale pricing to test products and give me your honest opinion! Just try a product for 90 days, take a before and after picture and you get 40% off of the retail price! Message me for more information! Thanks everyone! Have a great day! God bless!
Good morning! My name is Lauren, and I'm a grateful, recovering alcoholic/addict. This weekend I was talking to someone who talking me about things they weren't happy with, and I thought about how a lot of people want what they don't have. People with curly hair want straight hair, and those with straight hair would love curly locks. Sometimes those that are too thin would like to gain a few pounds, while those that are overweight would like to lose a few. It's a never ending battle. We always want what we don't have. Why can't we just be grateful for what we DO have. Someone with a small house wants one bigger. Someone with an old car wants a new one. But there is also someone with no house that would grateful with a small house. Or a person that would be grateful driving around that old beater. Be grateful you are where you are and with what you have. God has put you where in your life for a reason, it may be to grow, or someday help others with your situation. But remember it could always be worse. I am just so blessed to be alive and have people that love me and that I love surround me. Material things come and go. That's all I have for today. God Bless!
Good morning! My name is Lauren, and I'm a grateful, recovering alcoholic/addict. I took this picture. Taking photography is one thing I love to now now that I am clean and sober. It is one thing that I have time to do now that I am clean and sober. I love this word...Hope. When I was drinking and using, I had no hope. I was sad and depressed and hopeless. I cared about nothing and no one. I went through life day by day wishing for something to get better but I didn't change anything...so nothing changed. I was miserable. I don't miss those days. I don't regret those days though either. They made me who I am and got me to where I am today. Today I have hope. God has given me hope. Only He gives me the strength to go through each day. Only He gives me the courage to keep putting one foot in front of the other. Only He gives me hope for a better tomorrow. Thank you God! That's all I have today.
Good morning! My name is Lauren, and I'm a grateful, recovering alcoholic/addict. This skit portrays my life. It started out pretty good. I was a good kid, going to church and doing the right thing. I had Christ in my life when I was younger. Then I decided I wanted to do what I wanted to do. Those weren't always the best decisions. People came and went. God was always there with me keeping me from danger and saving me from myself. I used to cut myself and was suicidal for a period too. I thought my life was pointless. God was still there. I finally found my way back to him. and He saved me from all I was going through. Helped me get away from was I was dong and get clean and sober. I bawled when I saw this video. With no words it described my life. Knowing I got myself to the bottom of the hole I had dug myself, God helped me out. I didn't do it myself. Thank you God!! That's all I have for today! Don't forget to check out my store and donate if you feel obligated. Thanks again!
Good morning! My name is Lauren my name is Lauren and I'm a grateful recovering, alcoholic/addict. Today I have a story for you. We had our potluck last Friday, where we raise money to donate to a local food bank. We grilled out hot dogs and hamburgers, and charged $5 a plate for the funds to go to our donation total. At the end of the day there were some leftovers, some hamburgers and a couple hot dogs. I asked around to see if anyone wanted any, and after anyone else that wanted some took some, I took the rest home. I was supposed to be meeting a friend in Peoria that I hadn’t seen in a few years by the Civic Center so I told her I would park across the street and meet her there. I did and I waited. While I waited, I saw an older man with a half filled garbage bag walking around. His face was dirt covered. It looked like he hadn’t taken a showed in a while, I watched him for a minute. Then I saw him peer into the garbage can. Then his whole head went in. He must be looking for food. My heart sank into my stomach. I had probably 9 hamburgers sitting to my right, while this man is searching through garbage cans for his dinner. I gathered some courage and opened my car door and walked around the corner to find him looking in another garbage can. At first my words didn’t want to come out, but then they did.
“Sir, you look hungry. We had a potluck at work today, and I have some extra food in my car. Would you like a hamburger?”
“Yes, ma’am, that would be great!” He said.
He turned to follow me to my car. I asked what his name was and he said Ray, even though the name on his coat said Matt. I told him my name was Lauren. He then proceeded to tell me he lived here on the streets. I told him I would be praying for him. We got to my car and I made him a double burger. I apologized for not having any ketchup or mustard but he said it was ok. Then I saw another man looking in the same garbage can. I saw me giving Ray a burger so I waved him over. He hurriedly walked over and I gave him a double too. He didn’t stay long though. But I told him God bless him and I would be praying for him. After the men left I got back in my car and just thought of God’s timing. That He let me take the food home, and had me get this parking spot, and gave me the courage to go talk to these men and offer them food. Thank you God! Proverbs 14:31 says, “Whoever oppresses the poor shows contempt for their Maker, but whoever is kind to the needy shows honor to God.”
if I would have been drinking and using, I would have never thought of anyone but myself. Today I care about other people. And God puts people in my path for me to have the opportunity to help. He give me courage to talk to them. That's all I have for today! Have a great one!
Good morning! My name is Lauren, and I'm a grateful, recovering alcoholic/addict. I can do anything I put my mind to. Don't tell me I can't. I will be an author. I will be a photographer. I will be a great mom. I will be a good wife. I will do anything I want to, to the best of my ability. Don't tell me I can't do it. I'm sure some people laughed when I said I was writing a book, but I kept doing it. It didn't sell a million copies, but if it helped one person, it was worth it. I love taking pictures, and if my photography made one person smile, that makes it worth it. Some people didn't think I could ever get clean and sober, today I am clean and sober. I am happy today. Do something you don't think is possible, you may surprise yourself. :) That's all I have for today. Have a great one! Don't forget to check out my Patreon page. www.patreon.com/lovethesoberlife. You can help me continue to help others and donate my books, and keep this page going. Thanks! God Bless!
Good afternoon! My name is Lauren, and I'm a grateful, recovering alcoholic/addict. This quote really hit me today. I didn't start drinking or using with the intent of becoming an addict. I started because I liked the way it made me feel...or not feel. Well both actually. Drinking in the beginning was my "liquid courage." I was outgoing, but it gave me courage to talk to guys. Looking back now, I see that wasn't the way to go about it. Drinking and using didn't make me more sexy, it actually made me less attractive. Once I continued this way of life, I began to not feel, or deal with life, and I liked that too. I didn't have to deal with the feelings of disappointment or rejection, I just drank and used to not have to deal with it. But not dealing with it, didn't make it go away. Because when I got sober, I had a lot of things that were still there that I needed to deal with. We need to find other ways of meeting our needs than with drugs or alcohol, and there are a lot of them out there. :) Today, I go to church, AA meetings, and have a good support system. I talk about my problems, instead of running from them. That's all I have for today. Have a great one!
Good morning, my name is Lauren and I'm a grateful, recovering alcoholic/addict. Sorry it has been a while since I posted. I have been so busy, We just got back from vacation, and I have been painting about every room in our house. So to apologize I am going to give away some books some people today! I am drawing from those who have previously signed up. And the winners are... thompson.audria@.......... and mollyludy1@...... If you have signed up and these are either of your emails you have won! I will also email you, Please reply back and choose one of my books. Congrats! God Bless!
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